You are free. Free from ancient societal norms of manhood. You are free to be who you want to be. Ironically it's feminism that has freed you, or should have freed you, by liberating people from their ancient gender roles.
But you have been left behind by women, abandoned to a zombie manhood that will never be rewarded the way it has always been rewarded, the only reward that has made being a man worth the effort and danger. A woman will not be a woman for you anymore, so there is no reason anymore to be a man for women.
So don't be a man, not in the traditional sense. Be anything else, but don't be a traditional man. It will destroy you. The women you are a man for will destroy you, take everything from you, and leave you all used up. You will get nothing for your troubles, only waste your life.
So don't be a man; be a man going your own way.